What did I do Wrong?

I real-ICE-d that it feels good if you changed because you want to not because others told you so.

Reason for the realization:

- someone told me.. my room is a mess.. ( i started fixing )

- i saw my room and its a mess ( i started fixing )

between the 2 situation i felt better and happier on the 2nd one.. yes its nice when someone is concerned about you and tell you what you did wrong and then you change for the better.. but isn't it better and more fulfilling if we are more concerned about ourselves that we have the initiative to change before others tell you so.. We often look at others mistakes that sometimes we forget ours.. so because of this realization and before i yap around other peoples mistake I'd concentrate with my own mistakes first and ask myself "What did I do Wrong?"

~ICEey