When Bad isn't Bad

I real-ICE-d that sometimes what we think is bad for us is not really bad for us.. We are only claiming that it is because other people tells us so.











Reason for the realization:

When were sad or problematic most of us asks opinions from family and friends.. I usually turn to friends.. the thing is sometimes we confide with the wrong friends. They are the ones who knows nothing about the situation, has not been in that situation, and does not care a damn thing about you.. and there are some cases that some of them just uses you for their personal agendas. they'll tell you that a particular thing/person is bad for you.. Yes it is ok to consider their thoughts but you still have to ask yourself again.. coz they maybe wrong.. remember trust yourself more than anybody else.. This reminds me of a movie I just watched one of the Character said "I trust everyone.. It's the devil inside them I don't trust" 

It's not wrong to get other peoples opinion specially from your friends. Just remember that you're still the one who should be in control in the end. Which brings us to the conclusion that when some people say its bad it doesn't mean its bad because we all have different opinions.

-ICEey

Dodge and don't listen to Bruno Mars

I real-ICE-d that some people will throw things at you.. so dodge the negatives and catch the positive.. and also be ready to throw back if needed..

Reason for the realization:

It was just another light bulb moment when out of the blue you think about something. Well theres always a reason why.. lately negative things are thrown to me by people that it made me feel really bad for the past few weeks.. i realized that during these weeks what i was doing is just letting them hurt me.. so what i did is i remove a social networking sites and tried using a simple one called twitter. It actually worked coz the negativity lessened and i got to follow people who gives info/good news rather than things that are totally not helpful like their stupid life updates and negative things about other people.. so that's dodging the negatives.. catching the positive on the other hand is easy.. all you need to do is say thank you and make people feel that what they threw you is very much appreciated. but why do we need to be ready to throw back? I'm not telling that revenge is good but sometimes we need to fight back for self defense.. and if people throws you kindness do the same :)







-ICEey