When Bad isn't Bad

I real-ICE-d that sometimes what we think is bad for us is not really bad for us.. We are only claiming that it is because other people tells us so.











Reason for the realization:

When were sad or problematic most of us asks opinions from family and friends.. I usually turn to friends.. the thing is sometimes we confide with the wrong friends. They are the ones who knows nothing about the situation, has not been in that situation, and does not care a damn thing about you.. and there are some cases that some of them just uses you for their personal agendas. they'll tell you that a particular thing/person is bad for you.. Yes it is ok to consider their thoughts but you still have to ask yourself again.. coz they maybe wrong.. remember trust yourself more than anybody else.. This reminds me of a movie I just watched one of the Character said "I trust everyone.. It's the devil inside them I don't trust" 

It's not wrong to get other peoples opinion specially from your friends. Just remember that you're still the one who should be in control in the end. Which brings us to the conclusion that when some people say its bad it doesn't mean its bad because we all have different opinions.

-ICEey