I real-ICE-d that some people will throw things at you.. so dodge the negatives and catch the positive.. and also be ready to throw back if needed..
Reason for the realization:
It was just another light bulb moment when out of the blue you think about something. Well theres always a reason why.. lately negative things are thrown to me by people that it made me feel really bad for the past few weeks.. i realized that during these weeks what i was doing is just letting them hurt me.. so what i did is i remove a social networking sites and tried using a simple one called twitter. It actually worked coz the negativity lessened and i got to follow people who gives info/good news rather than things that are totally not helpful like their stupid life updates and negative things about other people.. so that's dodging the negatives.. catching the positive on the other hand is easy.. all you need to do is say thank you and make people feel that what they threw you is very much appreciated. but why do we need to be ready to throw back? I'm not telling that revenge is good but sometimes we need to fight back for self defense.. and if people throws you kindness do the same :)-ICEey
what happened to Bruno Mars?
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